I’m always asked about the etiquette of having a baby shower for a second, third or fourth child. Parents are worried that having one after the first child can appear greedy. That you’re only having the party to get more baby shower presents.
Well, a baby shower isn’t about the gifts and never should be. It’s the opportunity for you to see family and friends and celebrate the upcoming birth of a baby. Whether it is the first or fifth baby it shouldn’t matter. It’s a great opportunity to laugh, play games and be with the closest people around you.
It is also very common, so much so that it has the name “Baby Sprinkle”. So holding a second baby shower, or baby sprinkle is not only acceptable, it’s encouraged.
Gift Giving
I am also asked if you should buy a gift for the second or third baby shower. And my answer is always Absolutely! It doesn’t have to be an extravagant gift like a pram or crib or anything expensive but a small token gesture would be nice. The parents-to-be will already have the larger gifts so gifting items that are going to be needed regularly like newborn bibs, nappies, and Sudocrem is a good idea. To get some ideas read our baby essentials buying guide.
Even for the second baby, you can set up a baby registry to help guests select gifts. Your guests are going to want to give you a practical baby gift and this can help them choose.
This article was written by Luisa Figueroa. She is the owner, designer and maker of the My Little Love Heart range of baby products. I have been working within the fashion industry for over 15 years and specialising in baby accessories for the last 5. My love of fashion has enabled me to work and study around the world.